Accepting the call of the "cougar" means more than just preying on younger men. It means you are comfortable with being a sexy, experienced woman that younger men are attracted to. Sometimes, a handsome young man is exactly what you need to rediscover your enjoyment for relationships. We've researched four ways you can use your prowess to attract younger men.
1. He thinks emotional maturity is sexy.
Unlike your younger counterparts, you have had the opportunity to discard your baggage and be confident in your sensuality and knowledge. He loves it when you know what you want because it might just align with his desires. Leave the baggage behind and be comfortable in your skin.
2. He wants experience.
Women with experience in the bedroom and out of it are incredible assets in attracting younger men. He wants a woman who isn't afraid to explore and can help him discover. Older women also have the benefit of being able to offer great advice on lifestyle or career choices.
3. Being direct is a turn on to him.
He doesn't want to play coy or work hard. He may think it's easier to go for an older woman but the truth is he prefers your straightforward nature. Your boldness will be an advocate for you with younger men. Be direct and tell him what you're after. You may find him to be receptive to your urges.
4. He's looking for his equal.
He's not threatened by your success; in fact, he seeks to support it. Whether he's interested in something casual or more long term, he wants it to be honest. Instead of attempting to control him, focus on educating and experimenting with him in and out of the bedroom.
Although he may not be the full-grown man you've become accustomed to, he can certainly be a lot of fun and eager to please. Even better, he's already attracted to the idea of you and what you bring to the table. Your prey awaits.